2.21.2011
Fox 5 News
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1.11.2011
OPEN LETTER TO RUSSELL SIMMONS
Dear Mr. Russell Simmons:
On December 20, 2010, my dad passed away, he had a rare form of Prostate Cancer called Sarcomatoid Carcinoma of the Prostate. Three days prior to his passing, he signed the official paperwork to Incorporated a non-profit in the State of Maryland which he is the Co-founder of, Warriors Fighting for HIS Cure, INC (WF4HC).
The Mission of WF4HC is to empower those challenged with Prostate Cancer and/or Sarcomatoid Carcinoma of the Prostate to regain, restore and rebuild their Faith, Family & Finances while taking authority over and working to find a cure for this deadly disease. Our mandate is to walk by faith and not by sight and through the power of Faith to see an end to Prostate Cancer and/or Sarcomatoid Carcinoma of the Prostate and its effects on Men.
We endeavor to bring awareness, locate programs, resources and solutions that will surround, supplement and sustain the lives of men and those Challenged with Prostate Cancer and Sarcomatoid Carcinoma of the Prostate so that they can focus on enjoying the qualities of life.
I first would like to ask you if you were aware that there is a Prostate Cancer Awareness Month which our lovely President Obama proclaimed last year. I also wanted to discuss last year's Breast Cancer Month which was TRULY AWESOME. In the month of October 2010 (Breast Cancer Awareness Month), the WORLD got the opportunity to see NFL players in Pink!!! The World of the NFL supported women/men who fought and beat breast cancer, the women/men who are fighting breast cancer and the women/men who have died from Breast Cancer. The Susan G. Komen Foundation has done an Awesome thing for the Breast Cancer Community.
I myself was so wowed, I had to look up how Susan G. Komen for the cure, got started. After reading Nancy's (Susans sister) story and some of the heartfelt emotions and feelings she had, I totally related and this is when we decided that we would become fighters for those fighting Prostate Cancer and Sarcomatoid Carcinoma of the Prostate, and making Men Aware that they should get a Prostate Screening and the importance.
I, Jamecia Muckelvene, am the CEO and Founder, of WF4HC, and it saddens me that, the cure wasn’t already here, prior to my dad’s passing, or that I didn’t realize there was a blue ribbon and the importance of a Prostate Screening. If there was more Awareness and even better yet, a CURE, my daddy, James Irving Muckelvene, a Faithful loving man of GOD, would have have still been here. My dad has all girls, just like you. :)
Mr. Simmons, I feel that my purpose here is to provide others more awareness and fight for a cure. You can read his story on this blog we created (4wewalkbyfaith.blogspot.com).
So, enough of the emotional stuff. So, why am I writing this letter to you? Well, I don't watch TV much , but I happened to turn to your show, Running Russell Simmons, and both times I watched, you totally brought tears to my eyes.
The first was when Simone (Reyes) your Executive Assistant told you her biopsy showed signs of pre-cancer. You were in SHOCK, like she was your daughter and you imeediately told her you would find her the best doctors and what EVER you could do for her YOU WOULD. You hired a chef not asking if she would like you to do that, but you did it because you love her as family. You hired a Chef, not just to cook for her, but to show her how to cook healthy foods. I was in tears because, although my parents had insurance, I couldn’t afford to pay the best doctors to come in and take care of my dad. I couldn’t afford a Chef although later with prayer one did arrive, and made daddy SEVERAL meals; however, Daddy passed before he could finish them. We THANK Chef Keith James (http://www.chefupnorth.com/) and his wife Ronda Cave.
The second was after we came up with the idea to start the non-profit and we were seeking different types of Jewelry which Warriors could purchase in the honor of their loved one’s fighting or the loss of warriors that passed. When I saw the show with TI, and you presented the dog tag suggestion, I LOVED it…I cried when the following weekend I saw your vision come to life. My sister had a Kay Jewelers booklet and right in front of me were the DOG tags…it was like…if only I could make my dreams a reality. If only I had the support you have.
So, I write this open letter to you asking for your support. My dad served in the United States Armed forces for over 20 years (1973-1993), him and my mom married over 38 years, and he has always been loyal and faithful to his 3 girls, his 8 grandchildren and his "always and forever" love, our mom. He was especially faithful to GOD whom we know he is with in Heaven.
Mr. Simmons, Daddy was a Warrior who lived to a strict code of honour AND lived life to the fullest in full awareness and without fear of the unpredictable nature of life and of the constant presence of death. Even in his time of death he did not fear death, he just excepted it as another part of his journey and therefore as with all things he faced death with honour.
I Ask that you become a BLUEWarrior, so we continue to fight this fight against Prostate Cancer and Sarcomatoid Carcinoma of the Prostate and so that daddy will not just be a memory , but his legacy will live on through WF4HC! I am asking you help me connect with others in the Media, so that we the Warriors Fighting for HIS Cure, INC can spread more Awareness of Prostate Cancer and Sarcomatoid Carcinoma of the Prostate. If you are interested in talking with me and helping me make my dream of this non-profit a reality and so as Susan G. Koman has received support WORLDwide, the Blue Warriors can also receive support for our MEN who are also fighting. Please email me at warriors@warriorsfightingforhiscure.org or call 240-671-9360. This is my OPEN letter to you in the hopes that you will contact me.
For those that wish to donate, please us this link. (copy and paste)
http://bit.ly/g5Ay4u
Some interesting things to know:
Did you know that the NCI estimates that more than 32,000 American fathers, husbands, brothers, sons and friends will die this year from that disease?
Did you know that Prostate Cancer Awareness month is September 2011?
Did you know The NCI estimates that 217,230 Prostate Cancer cases will be diagnosed this year, and more than the 207,090 cases of breast cancer are expected to be diagnosed?
Did you know that other than skin cancer, prostate cancer is the most common cancer in American Men?
Some notes for African American Men since Black History Month is February
Did you know that African American men have the highest prostate cancer incidence and mortality rates in the world? The incidence rate is up to 60% higher than - and mortality rate double - that of Caucasian males, who have the second highest rate.
Did you know that African-American men have the highest risk of developing prostate cancer and are twice as likely to die from it as other men with the cancer?
Did you know that nearly 100% of African-American men diagnosed with early stage prostate cancer are still alive five years from diagnosis? Of African-American men diagnosed in the late stages of the disease, 29% survive five years.*
Did you know, early detection for prostate cancer involves a simple blood test and a physical exam. It takes about 10 minutes and is covered by health insurance in many states.
1.05.2011
I of III Benefit Concerts
Hoping you can share the news. Please click on the Flyer to see a bigger picture.
Here is the link where you can make a donation.
via paypal to our email warriors@warriorsfightingforhiscure.org or use this link (some have not been able to access the link, so please email us if you are having difficulties)
https://www.paypal.com/us/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_flow&SESSION=vRVGBQr1N6UJPJIDZhmzdkbOgiLIRCRZKzG3N4vd1tEpI4tKD0mL7WjAx-K&dispatch=5885d80a13c0db1f8e263663d3faee8d9384d85353843a619606282818e091d0
(non-profit)
Warriors Fighting for HIS Cure, Inc (WF4HC)~
Invites you to attend a Benefit Concert in Loving Memory of James "Rudy" Muckelvene, the late Co-Founder and President of WF4HC. The I of III Benefit Concert will be Sunday, January 23, 2011 and will be held at Sharon Bible Fellowship Church, 6117 Seabrook Road, Lanham MD 20706. The Concert will start at 5PM and the doors will open at 4:30pm. This concert will be free to the public, and those that wish to make donations to Warriors Fighting for HIS Cure, Inc. May do so.
Warriors Fighting for HIS Cure, Inc was Incorporated December 17, 2010, 3 days prior to James Muckelvene's passing. He had the opportunity and strength to sign the paperwork as an Owner. He also helped with writing up the Warrior Mission (please see below). We thank you for your continued support. If you wish to make a donation, and will not be able to make it to the concerts, please make a check or money order ou to Warriors Fighting for HIS Cure, Inc and mail to 6311 South Osborne Road, Upper Marlboro, Maryland 20772. You can see James's walk on this blog, 4wewalkbyfaith.blogspot.com and if you prefer to make a donation on line (credit card or paypal), there is a link in the article on Bowie Patch, below.
We look forward to seeing you at the concerts.
arriors Fighting for HIS Cure, INC Mission
Warriors Fighting for HIS Cure (WF4HC) is organizing primarily to empowering those challenged with Prostate Cancer (PC) and/or Sarcomatoid Carcinoma of the Prostate(SCP) to regain, restore and rebuild their Faith, Family & Finances while taking authority over and working to find a cure for this deadly disease. Our mandate is to walk by faith and not by sight and through the power of Faith seeking an end to PC and SCP and it's effects on men. We Endeavor to locate programs, resources and solutions that will surround, supplement and sustain the lives of those Challenged with PC and SCP so that they can focus on being healed either directly or through contributions to any charitable organization, individuals, or organizations, exclusively for charitable, scientific or educational purposes provided such purposes are substantially related to the support of education, research, detection, prevention and treatment or study of prostate cancer and to support services for people affected by PC and/or SCP.
http://bowie.patch.com/users/jesse-jackson
http://bowie.patch.com/articles/bowie-man-succumbs-to-extremely-rare-aggressive-prostate-cancer
Thank you,
Jamecia Muckelvene
Warriors Fighting for HIS Cure, INC
CEO & Founder and
The Late, James Muckelvene, Co-Founder and President
(240) 671-9360
1.04.2011
Daddy's Response.
I was looking at my emails from way back when and found this email I sent to my parents back in 2006...after you read my email, you will see, Daddy's Response. All World Girl is Pearline my daughter whose Birthday is 1/11/11 this year. She will be 14. Daddy said she will be Famous one day and I believe him.
Hello Mother and Father-
I have been doing a lot of thinking and I want you and Daddy to be TWO happy people. What would be your ultimate happy household…if there was one? Let’s say I decided to have a slumber party or sleep over at my house with my sisters. What would I say to one of them or both of them that would make things so much easier on you?? Please do not just send an email just type the first thing that comes to your mind. Please think about it first…let my question soak in …then respond. Life is not guaranteed for any of us and I just want my immediate family to live life as if it is our last days.
What could I do to make things easier on the both of you? Other then being a pest, because I know you like it…but on a serious note please give it some thought and let me know.
Thanks
I Love you
Mecia
p.s. I have also cc: them on this email, please just hit reply if you only want me to read or reply all if you want all of us to know what’s on your mind. My sisters can respond to the second question about what I could do to make things easier on them, but if you want mommy and daddy to do things differently to make yours easier…hold your breath…it ain’t happening. Your going to have to change yourself cause they ain’t changing for no one but the man up above.
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From: James Muckelvene [mailto:jmuckelvene@yahoo.com]
Sent: Friday, May 26, 2006 3:27 PM
To: Muckelvene, Jamecia
Subject: Re: For My wonderful Parents.
That's so sweet Mecca , Here's my list.
1. Relax and enjoy your independence.
2. Make sure All World Girl has a round trip ticket home when she
leaves
3. Never think you can do it all.
4. Don't be satisfied with your accomplishments or you're stop having
them.
5. Take notice that when you are happy we are happier
That's my short list. I'm reserving the long list to give to you
everyday
for the rest of my life.
Love you
Daddy
12.30.2010
The Muckelvene Tribute...we Thank you Ja!
12.29.2010
WF4HC messages....please donate to WF4HC for those fighting Sarcomatoid Carcinoma of the Prostate as well as Prostate Cancer.
To: princessjamecia@yahoo.com
Sent: Thu, December 9, 2010 3:03:12 PM
Subject: Give hope ...
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I'm not trying to be rude, but I'm not sure how you all are helping us who are fighting Sarcomatoid Carcinoma. If you can email me back and tell me what hope you have given our family. I would greatly appreciate it. I'm course to find out what hope you all or research or funding goes towards folks fighting Sarcomatoid Carcinoma of the Prostate. Maybe I'm missing something. Please let me know how you can help our family.
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Thank you for reaching out to your American Cancer Society with your concern. I will be happy to look into your question. We will contact you as soon as possible regarding available information on research funding for Sarcomatoid Carcinoma (of the Prostate).
Please know that our Cancer Information Specialists are here to address questions about diagnosis and treatment related questions, as well as support resources anytime 24 hours a day/7 days a week at 1-800-227-2345 or via "contact us" at www.cancer.org.
Thank you again.
My best to you and your family,
Hello again,
I have received further clarification regarding your question on our research funding for Sarcomatoid Carcinoma of the Prostate. The Society is currently funding 98 grants dealing with Prostate Cancer totaling $53,812,500.00; however, none of them specifically involve Sarcomatoid Carcinoma of the prostate.
Please let us know if you have further questions or needs related to this diagnosis by calling 1-800-227-2345 anytime 24 hours a day to speak to one of our Cancer Information Specialists, or via "contact us" at the bottom of our home page at www.cancer.org. Our specialists can assist with many needs such as locating area support groups, transportation to treatment appointments, and answering questions related to cancer treatment and its side effects.
Best,
This is why WF4HC is needed. Please donate to our cause.
Benefit Concerts
12.25.2010
Daddy's Celebration of Life Services You can also donate to WF4HC
Facts
Born: October 24, 1952
Place of Birth: Norfolk
Death: December 20, 2010
Place of Death: Upper Marlboro
Occupation: Co-Founder & President WF4HC
Hobbies: Loving Pearl (His Wife), ALWAYS & FOREVER, Spending time with family, Reading the Bible, Gardening, Bowling, and Sketching.
Organizations: Warriors Fighting For HIS Cure, Inc. (WF4HC)
James I. Muckelvene
October 24, 1952 - December 20, 2010
Wake
Monday December 27, 2010, 10:30am - 11:30am
Spirit of Faith
South Location
Celebration Of Life
Monday December 27, 2010, 11:30am
Spirit of Faith
South Location
Service Honoring 20 yr Veteran
Monday December 27, 2010, 2:00pm - 2:30pm
Cheltenham Veterans Cemetery
Donations
Warriors Fighting for HIS Cure, Inc James "Rudy" Muckelvene, Co-Founder & President
Sign the Guestbook
Share your thoughts and memories about James I. Muckelvene in the guestbook.
12.15.2010
Thriller
12.13.2010
Blessed
Last month I received an e-mail from Ronda, I believe I posted her e-mail on the blog. Ronda dealt with something similar and feels a personal connection to our story. There are a lot of similarities in our stories and we too feel a connection with her.
Last week her husband Keith James ( http://www.chefupnorth.com/ ) who is a MAGNIFICENT chef that owns a catering company prepared and delivered 10 COMPLETE MEALS for my father. A family that we had NEVER met but felt connected and wanted to help took the time to deliver and cook 10 MEALS for my Dad. If that is not amazing, I don't know what is.
My dad was ALL smiles when they brought the meals to him. I have been the main "chef" since my father was diagnosed and I do OK :) After each of Keith's meals I asked my dad "how was it?" and he said "it was REALLY good! It was well seasoned and tender. It was good!" Normally after one of my meals I ask "how was it?" and he says *long pause* "it was pretty good"
ON TOP OF THAT... Ronda and her husband INSISTED that we contact them when the meals run out and offered to make my dad even more.
12.07.2010
This Is My Daddy
Pended post from 12/7/2010
12.03.2010
Art is Therapy
12.02.2010
SARCOMATOID CARCINOMA
"Our Mom has been recently dx with the following listed above- We need as much info as anyone can provide, there are so many mixed messages and treatments , however we are aware it is not curable per the CA Doc but non the less-we want to make the right choices and decisions as far as treatment vs non treatment for her - Some has listed that the tumors dissapear and in some cases they have with our Mom but have come back with a vengance - Recently she was rushed to ER due to tumor ruptured the spleen and she was bleeding out, according to the docs this never happens except in Leukemia patients but it did for her.. Testing has been ongoing since March of last year , Mom went in for Cataracts and the Doc she saw insisted on a chest X-ray before they went any further , am unsure why but almost a year later and multi biospys of the lungs and lymph nodes int he center of the chest, pulmonologist were certain it was not cancer until Dec another CT was done and a tumor showed in the adrenal gland along within the areas of the liver and spleen, also a lymph node under the arm had been causing her pain- Upon biopsy approx 3 weeks ago of the arm lympoh node the Dx was made and then a week later the spleen ruptured.. We have been advised this is an aggressive Ca , and is not curable but I have read cases where after chemo and or removal of the tumors that some have had a 5 year servival rate and unfortunaly the majority of cases I have seen and or read have been where our Mom is at now - Since being home , she sleeps alot except for a night - is uncomfortable , denies pain but you can see that shes in pain- nothing tastes right to her so no appeitite to speak of , has lost alot of weight already due to not eating- she has stomache upset alot - We are frustrated with the docotors, althought this being a rare Ca ,I dodnt beleive there is enough info on it and or out there , we are still waiting on further from Mayo on the first biopsy but for now this was the dx given.. Mom has alwasy been healty , never ill , never in hospitals - it so insanley wrong to see someone so well and then a matter of hours and weeks , its gone - I am angry , I know it is one of the steps but I dont understand the technology they have now it just blows me aways that no one knows anything ( the Doctors)